Comments on: Where Are You?! http://newsinglemama.com/10/where-are-you/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:17:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Nicole http://newsinglemama.com/10/where-are-you/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Nicole Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:05:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=10#comment-18 P.S: Give your baby your last name. That's what parents do. If he doesn't want to act like a parent or alknowledge what he is then he shouldn't get that honour. P.S: Give your baby your last name. That’s what parents do. If he doesn’t want to act like a parent or alknowledge what he is then he shouldn’t get that honour.

]]> By: Nicole http://newsinglemama.com/10/where-are-you/comment-page-1/#comment-17 Nicole Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:02:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=10#comment-17 My son's father ignored him and I both until my son's 1st birthday.<br/>THEN he told his parents about him. (Who now resent me because they think I was the one hiding our son's existence)<br/><br/>It's scary to be single and pregnant but you're going to love that little boy like you wouldn't believe!<br/><br/>I have to agree with anonymous though, he's not thinking about you or your child, he's just thinking about him.<br/>In every circumstance where a man acts in this manner it is him that he's thinking about.<br/>In my case he tried to turn it around and show me how my life was going to be ruined but he was really just thinking about how he was going to be affected.<br/>He didn't care what it did to mine, otherwise he would have tried calling at the very least.<br/>He wanted to be free to party with his friends and tour with his band.<br/><br/>It's not always an addiction that wins, but it's always something.<br/><br/>You just have to recognize that.<br/>Be the mama bear. Protect your child and don't let the effects of what shapes his decisions affect your child in a negative way.<br/><br/>You're one of the lucky people that realize this early on.<br/>Good for you :)<br/>Use that to your advantage to remain a strong woman and an amazing mother.<br/>Don't question your instincts.<br/>They know what's best.<br/>What you do from here on in affects not only you, but your child as well.<br/><br/>Good luck :)<br/>Keep us updated! My son’s father ignored him and I both until my son’s 1st birthday.
THEN he told his parents about him. (Who now resent me because they think I was the one hiding our son’s existence)

It’s scary to be single and pregnant but you’re going to love that little boy like you wouldn’t believe!

I have to agree with anonymous though, he’s not thinking about you or your child, he’s just thinking about him.
In every circumstance where a man acts in this manner it is him that he’s thinking about.
In my case he tried to turn it around and show me how my life was going to be ruined but he was really just thinking about how he was going to be affected.
He didn’t care what it did to mine, otherwise he would have tried calling at the very least.
He wanted to be free to party with his friends and tour with his band.

It’s not always an addiction that wins, but it’s always something.

You just have to recognize that.
Be the mama bear. Protect your child and don’t let the effects of what shapes his decisions affect your child in a negative way.

You’re one of the lucky people that realize this early on.
Good for you :)
Use that to your advantage to remain a strong woman and an amazing mother.
Don’t question your instincts.
They know what’s best.
What you do from here on in affects not only you, but your child as well.

Good luck :)
Keep us updated!

]]> By: Anonymous http://newsinglemama.com/10/where-are-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 16:34:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=10#comment-5 I feel bad for you but you have to realize that this man is a drug addict. He doesn't care about you or the baby, his concern is about drugs! Do some research, educate yourself about drug addiction because you really don't seem to GET IT. He's not thinking about anything, he's just getting high. He will probably end up dead. I am sorry to be so harsh, but it is true. Keep away from him and mostly, KEEP YOUR BABY AWAY FROM HIM!!! He's dangerous. I feel bad for you but you have to realize that this man is a drug addict. He doesn’t care about you or the baby, his concern is about drugs! Do some research, educate yourself about drug addiction because you really don’t seem to GET IT. He’s not thinking about anything, he’s just getting high. He will probably end up dead. I am sorry to be so harsh, but it is true. Keep away from him and mostly, KEEP YOUR BABY AWAY FROM HIM!!! He’s dangerous.

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