Comments on: Better Feeling :)

By: Bridgette

Bridgette — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:36:00 +0000

Thanks for the comments ladies. It was hard to get over the father of my child, I’m not gonna lie. And there are times I still think of him and get annoyed. I could still be depressed and feeling sorry for myself right now .. but I really had to stop and come to terms with the fact that theres a little person involved now and all that hurt and bad feeling does neither of us any good.

Sure, Daddy can hurt me all the day long. Repeatedly even, and I can take it .. I’m a grown woman whose been through and seen some things so sooner or later I’ll get over it.

But this precious little innocent person doesn’t deserve to share that pain. All I want is to see my baby smile and be as happy as possible. Right now, unfortunately, the father is not in a place mentally where he can provide those smiles and good memories to our little one. So mommy must step up to the plate!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 02:28:00 +0000

I am in a similar situation, 18 single mumma and 10 weeks.

Please if anyone has any words of advive please email me awaitingyouhere@hotmail.com

By: Heather

Heather — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 01:42:00 +0000

That's awesome that you've been able to find some peace and clarity.

A lot of women in your situation would be sitting around feeling sorry for themselves 24/7. You're rocking this young, single, pregnant momma thing! Go you!

And I agree that you occasionally need to take a break from thinking/talking/reading about the baby. You are still you... just a much cooler version.

By: Ms. Single Mama

Ms. Single Mama — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 17:52:00 +0000

Sending you A LOT of virtual hugs… you will get through this and hang on to that strength, you’ll need it.

But life does go on – and can go on – very well without a man in the mix.