Comments on: One Person Can’t Love Enough for Two Pt. 1 http://newsinglemama.com/23/one-person-cant-love-enough-for-two-pt-1/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:38:57 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/23/one-person-cant-love-enough-for-two-pt-1/comment-page-1/#comment-16 Bridgette Mon, 29 Dec 2008 02:39:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=23#comment-16 Thanks for the comment Hef. Yeah, everything is falling back into it's place. He promised that he had been done for a month and things would be so positive. He didn't change my view at all .. and really all he made me do was set myself back in getting over him. It's been hard for me because he swears he wants our child so badly and I don't wanna keep him away, but how can I allow my little one around that? Thanks for the comment Hef. Yeah, everything is falling back into it’s place. He promised that he had been done for a month and things would be so positive. He didn’t change my view at all .. and really all he made me do was set myself back in getting over him. It’s been hard for me because he swears he wants our child so badly and I don’t wanna keep him away, but how can I allow my little one around that?

]]> By: Hef http://newsinglemama.com/23/one-person-cant-love-enough-for-two-pt-1/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Hef Sun, 28 Dec 2008 19:16:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=23#comment-15 I wish I could spew the last five years of my life in a big pile for you to sift through. There are some pretty significant similarities in our situations.<br/><br/>I don't know how familiar you are with meth, but it's very obvious from what you've written that he has a serious problem and is NOT on the road to fixing it. There is absolutely NO WAY that he will be able to be a decent man for you or father for his child if he's on meth.<br/><br/>When the ex and I got together, we were both on meth. Heavily. And had been for quite some time. I know what it's like on both side of the coin. (It's been almost five years since I've used that stuff, btw.)<br/><br/>I think you realize that it's best for you and baby to stay far, far away from this guy. I promise you, this is what is best. I PROMISE.<br/><br/>I hope that, by cutting him out now, you can avoid some of the pain and anguish and total misery that I've experienced with the ex. It's been hell. <br/><br/>And don't feel bad about falling back into his arms. I get it. But I do truly hope that you will discontinue any form of relationship with him.<br/><br/>I fought with the idea that it was "wrong" for me to keep my babe from her daddy for the longest time. It wasn't until very recently that I was able to accept that, by hanging on to that idea, I was putting his rotten arse above my babe's well-being.<br/><br/>Good luck with everything. I hope you're able to kick that morning sickness soon. I wish I could spew the last five years of my life in a big pile for you to sift through. There are some pretty significant similarities in our situations.

I don’t know how familiar you are with meth, but it’s very obvious from what you’ve written that he has a serious problem and is NOT on the road to fixing it. There is absolutely NO WAY that he will be able to be a decent man for you or father for his child if he’s on meth.

When the ex and I got together, we were both on meth. Heavily. And had been for quite some time. I know what it’s like on both side of the coin. (It’s been almost five years since I’ve used that stuff, btw.)

I think you realize that it’s best for you and baby to stay far, far away from this guy. I promise you, this is what is best. I PROMISE.

I hope that, by cutting him out now, you can avoid some of the pain and anguish and total misery that I’ve experienced with the ex. It’s been hell.

And don’t feel bad about falling back into his arms. I get it. But I do truly hope that you will discontinue any form of relationship with him.

I fought with the idea that it was “wrong” for me to keep my babe from her daddy for the longest time. It wasn’t until very recently that I was able to accept that, by hanging on to that idea, I was putting his rotten arse above my babe’s well-being.

Good luck with everything. I hope you’re able to kick that morning sickness soon.

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