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Child Support

Posted on | April 14, 2009 | 4 Comments

The whole process intimidates me. The possibilities scare me.

Yet the time is nearing and I feels it should be done.

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4 Responses to “Child Support”

  1. Nakia
    April 14th, 2009 @ 1:23 pm

    It can be rough, but try not to stress too hard about it. It is something that needs to be done but (in my opinion) if you can budget raising your baby with what you can provide, if child support comes on a regular basis then it's like icing on the cake.

    This, of course, is coming from someone who did not file. And occasionally regrets it.

  2. mommy2jl
    April 15th, 2009 @ 5:48 pm

    I agree with Nakia.
    I plan my budget around the money that I have coming in that isn't child support because we didn't file a formal agreement and I don't want to fully rely on something that may or may not come each month.

    I wish I hadn't waited a year and a half to make arrangments with James' dad though.
    Some months the money helps more than I like to admit.
    Don't feel intimidated though — child support is pretty cut and dry.

  3. NewSingleMama
    April 17th, 2009 @ 3:26 pm

    Is it too late for you to file now?

  4. NewSingleMama
    April 17th, 2009 @ 3:28 pm

    I only feel intimidated because I'm afraid how he will react and how hard he would make things for us. He always said he refuses to be a Child Support dad, but he refuses be any other type of dad .. one that willingly helps us, one who is aware his son exists so I'm like what choice do I have?

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