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HE’S NOT MINE!!!!!!

Posted on | April 29, 2009 | 2 Comments

Yup. That’s what daddy randomly left to me today in offline IM.

DADDY: (29/4/09 12:20 PM): HES NOT MINE!!!!

Oh fucking really?

You know, I can’t decide if I seriously wanna reply this fuck back and say “No he’s not yours, he’s MINE because as of today you haven’t done a damn thing for him except lend your fucking sperm. And even that is something I wish on any baby. Lucky for me your shit was weak and my son missed your gatdamn inner uglyness. BITCH!!!!!”

But I don’t know if I should even entertain his foolishness.

I don’t know why, but after I initially laughed this pissed me off lots. Obviously you can see by how I just wanna cuss him out and call him every name in the book!

Uggh. I swear I despise him more and more every day and then I could kick myself because I don’t see how I could’ve had the worse judgment in a man (or men) ever and put myself in this situation.

But then I think about my beautiful baby, he’s what I got out of it and I realize it’s not so bad. I’d go through all of this all over again to have my Jack.

Comments

2 Responses to “HE’S NOT MINE!!!!!!”

  1. Lauren
    April 30th, 2009 @ 3:17 pm

    Even though Anna's dad decided to be responsible, he was always questioning whether my baby was actually his. He asked me more than once "This is going to make me sound like a complete asshole, but…are you SURE I'm the father?" but then he gave up and decided that he would be a dad regardless. (Of course, now that she's here, it's very obvious that she's his since she looks just like him)

    If I were you, I wouldn't respond to that IM. He can question whether or not he's the father, but he should be able to maturely talk to you about that. And hey, if he never comes around, it might be best if it's just you and Jack — you don't need that kind of negative influence around your son.

  2. NewSingleMama
    May 1st, 2009 @ 7:49 am

    That's how my BD was and obviously still is. He has gone back and forth between being ecstatic about the baby and then doubting me screaming "IT AINT MINE!"

    It's like seriously. Do you not remember that you were the one pressuring me for condomless sex? That you were begging to make a baby? That you DID do what you men have to do to get a woman pregnant? Not once, but multiple times! Then you're shocked that I got pregnant and can't believe it?

    Grow up!

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