Comments on: HE’S NOT MINE!!!!!! http://newsinglemama.com/264/hes-not-mine/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:17:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: NewSingleMama http://newsinglemama.com/264/hes-not-mine/comment-page-1/#comment-341 NewSingleMama Fri, 01 May 2009 07:49:32 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=264#comment-341 That's how my BD was and obviously still is. He has gone back and forth between being ecstatic about the baby and then doubting me screaming "IT AINT MINE!" It's like seriously. Do you not remember that you were the one pressuring me for condomless sex? That you were begging to make a baby? That you DID do what you men have to do to get a woman pregnant? Not once, but multiple times! Then you're shocked that I got pregnant and can't believe it? Grow up! That's how my BD was and obviously still is. He has gone back and forth between being ecstatic about the baby and then doubting me screaming "IT AINT MINE!"

It's like seriously. Do you not remember that you were the one pressuring me for condomless sex? That you were begging to make a baby? That you DID do what you men have to do to get a woman pregnant? Not once, but multiple times! Then you're shocked that I got pregnant and can't believe it?

Grow up!

]]> By: Lauren http://newsinglemama.com/264/hes-not-mine/comment-page-1/#comment-339 Lauren Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:17:51 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=264#comment-339 Even though Anna's dad decided to be responsible, he was always questioning whether my baby was actually his. He asked me more than once "This is going to make me sound like a complete asshole, but...are you SURE I'm the father?" but then he gave up and decided that he would be a dad regardless. (Of course, now that she's here, it's very obvious that she's his since she looks just like him) If I were you, I wouldn't respond to that IM. He can question whether or not he's the father, but he should be able to maturely talk to you about that. And hey, if he never comes around, it might be best if it's just you and Jack -- you don't need that kind of negative influence around your son. Even though Anna's dad decided to be responsible, he was always questioning whether my baby was actually his. He asked me more than once "This is going to make me sound like a complete asshole, but…are you SURE I'm the father?" but then he gave up and decided that he would be a dad regardless. (Of course, now that she's here, it's very obvious that she's his since she looks just like him)

If I were you, I wouldn't respond to that IM. He can question whether or not he's the father, but he should be able to maturely talk to you about that. And hey, if he never comes around, it might be best if it's just you and Jack — you don't need that kind of negative influence around your son.

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