Being Prostituted by a “Friend”
Posted on | June 8, 2009 | 3 Comments
Back in March I wrote an entry about removing toxic friends from my life including a guy named S, who formally was one of my closest friends. S is a drug addict, alcoholic, insanely immature, dramatic and has absolutely no ambition in life. He was cool to be friends with for an occasional hang out up until I became pregnant and my priorities changed. I need people in my life who will beneficial to both me and my son. Those who will be positive influences. I’m done with the drug crowd. I’m done with those who try to reflect their drama onto others. I’ve cut these people off and have been pretty successful up until today.
I had woke up from a afternoon nap and called my mom. She told me she was on the other line and would call me right back. 3 minutes later my phone rang and assuming it was Mommy without looking at the caller ID I picked up and heard a male voice on the other end. It was S. Here is how the conversation went:
S: Hey! What’s up?
Me: Oh hi .. not too much how are you?
S: I’m good. You done had that baby yet?
Me: No …
S: Oh because I have this really cool friend .. he’s a black guy and I told him you would be interested in meeting him. I was wondering if you would come over today.
Me: Why would you tell him that? I rarely even talk to you anymore …
S: Yeah well you know he was asking me if I knew any girls who are cool because he’s .. you know .. lookin to get some .. so I thought you would be interested. But he prefers that you have your baby first.
Me: Why would you volunteer me for some shit like that? What would make you think that I’m that type of girl that you can just offer me up as a sex hole to some skanky ass dude?
S: I dunno … I just thought you guys would hit it off.
Me: Absolutely not and I can’t believe you would call me with this shit.
S: My bad. No big deal .. he’s pretty crazy anyway.
FUCKIN ASSHOLE! I’m beyond pissed and offended. This is a guy I’ve known for 8 years. We used to be pretty fuckin tight as youngsters. He used to be like a brother to me and now this is what he does? He pimps me out to some skeezy ass “crazy” dude offering me as a sex object? When I’m a responsible, mature woman who is now a mother and this is the level he wants to bring me down to? His level? FUCK THAT SHIT! If that dude is horny he can use his damn hand. Don’t bring me and my son into this.
And not only that I hung up with him and about an hour later I got a call on my number from a “Demarco” according to my caller ID so I have no doubt this bitch, S has already given dude my number.
STOP TRYING TO PULL ME INTO YOUR SHITTY LIFE! ME NOR MY BABY WANT ANY PART OF YOU DAMMIT! MORE SO DON’T EVER TRY TO DEGRADE ME LIKE THIS AGAIN!
That’s my rant 
Uggh. I have so much I want to say, but I’m speechless and don’t even know where to start. And I know I cuss a lot when I get upset lol.
Now I’m going back to drawing up a “blueprint” of how I’m going to redecorate my studio to suit me and baby. I have some great ideas and I can’t wait until everything falls into place!
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June 8th, 2009 @ 7:27 pm
That is absolutely DISGUSTING! I really have no more words for that phone conversation…
June 10th, 2009 @ 10:42 am
Hi, first time reader. Came here from Spewage link. You’re amazing and awesome. S is a lowlife and not worth the air he breathes. What about changing your number? Then maybe you won’t have to check caller ID at all. ….
June 11th, 2009 @ 1:26 pm
Lauren- Yeah that phone call was pretty horrifying LOL.
Christina – thank you for stopping by my blog. I’m glad you enjoy what you have read
I have blocked him from the phone and hopefully that will be enough for him and psycho babys mom to stop calling me and realize I really want nothing to do with them! I don’t outright tell them this because I know the extra drama they would try to pull if I did.