Comments on: So It Continues .. http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:38:57 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Bridgette Wed, 28 Jan 2009 09:54:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-44 Hahaha, the funny thing is that they took it upon themselves to clean for me which is great but they were so bitchy to me while doing it. It's just not something I need to hear .. bitch bitch bitch about every little thing. Bleh. Hahaha, the funny thing is that they took it upon themselves to clean for me which is great but they were so bitchy to me while doing it. It’s just not something I need to hear .. bitch bitch bitch about every little thing. Bleh.

]]> By: Satsuki Rebel http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Satsuki Rebel Wed, 28 Jan 2009 05:12:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-42 You could always start a second one under a second name and be exclusive with who you tell. Just don't identify yourself by real name or pic and you can publish it as freely as you like.<br/><br/>As far as family goes, you handled it better than I would have. Next time they start harping hand 'em a mop. If they're so concerned then surely cleaning would help calm them. <br/><br/>The whole messiness thing doesn't end though. It'll take awhile and honestly, that's really not that bad. Just judge yourself by your own standards- don't let them bother you. They will never know what it is to live your life. You could always start a second one under a second name and be exclusive with who you tell. Just don’t identify yourself by real name or pic and you can publish it as freely as you like.

As far as family goes, you handled it better than I would have. Next time they start harping hand ‘em a mop. If they’re so concerned then surely cleaning would help calm them.

The whole messiness thing doesn’t end though. It’ll take awhile and honestly, that’s really not that bad. Just judge yourself by your own standards- don’t let them bother you. They will never know what it is to live your life.

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Bridgette Sun, 25 Jan 2009 09:45:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-40 Hi Steph! Thanks for your support! Yeah, I'm pretty much for the most part over Daddy and I don't really want him to be involved, though I wish he would grow up and take responsibility. He helped me make this child and sometimes it feels so unfair he's making me do the all the work when he has nothing better to do than sit home, feel sorry for himself and get high.<br/><br/>But luckily I no longer feel like I NEED him to bet here.<br/><br/>Though I am upset with my blog being exposed I did start it to help other people and meet people who have been where I'm at .. and I still have a long road ahead of me so I plan to continue :) Hi Steph! Thanks for your support! Yeah, I’m pretty much for the most part over Daddy and I don’t really want him to be involved, though I wish he would grow up and take responsibility. He helped me make this child and sometimes it feels so unfair he’s making me do the all the work when he has nothing better to do than sit home, feel sorry for himself and get high.

But luckily I no longer feel like I NEED him to bet here.

Though I am upset with my blog being exposed I did start it to help other people and meet people who have been where I’m at .. and I still have a long road ahead of me so I plan to continue :)

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Bridgette Sun, 25 Jan 2009 08:50:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-39 Tam, I totally agree with you and I hate when anyone thinks they know better for me and I'm just hallucinating over how I feel. Being pregnant is hard work .. and sometimes its easier or harder for some moreso than others. No one seems to realize unfortunately :(. Argh!<br/><br/>The problem is I've already removed it from mybloglog, but it was up for about a week or two feeding my posts to my whole messenger list which Daddy has me added on .. so chances are he's already seen it and maybe even saved it :( I don't want him to know anything about me or our baby which is what frustrates me. Tam, I totally agree with you and I hate when anyone thinks they know better for me and I’m just hallucinating over how I feel. Being pregnant is hard work .. and sometimes its easier or harder for some moreso than others. No one seems to realize unfortunately :( . Argh!

The problem is I’ve already removed it from mybloglog, but it was up for about a week or two feeding my posts to my whole messenger list which Daddy has me added on .. so chances are he’s already seen it and maybe even saved it :( I don’t want him to know anything about me or our baby which is what frustrates me.

]]> By: Steph http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-38 Steph Sun, 25 Jan 2009 03:13:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-38 Ive been reading your blog lately, not sure how I came across it, but I got sucked in and couldnt stop reading! I would be sad to see you delete it too! And who cares what you and your apartment look like!If you think its bad now, wait till you have the baby and you'll be lucky to get a shower every day!! It wont matter what anyone says once he/she is here. All that will matter is your beautiful baby!! The important thing is that you love your child and want the best for it! And it's "daddys" loss if he isnt around for it. Just my opinion, but he/she would be better without a father than to have a meth addicted one!! That stuff is the devil, I know from experience, and he wont care about ANYTHING until he kicks the shit!! So for the sake and safety of your child Id stay FAR away from him!! I know it's easier said than done and like I said, just an opinion. Im not in your position, but I am a mother and know that I would do ANYTHING to protect my child!!! Im sure you feel the same!! Dont stop writing b/c of him! I know that you are probably helping lots of young single mothers out there with your strength!! Ive been reading your blog lately, not sure how I came across it, but I got sucked in and couldnt stop reading! I would be sad to see you delete it too! And who cares what you and your apartment look like!If you think its bad now, wait till you have the baby and you’ll be lucky to get a shower every day!! It wont matter what anyone says once he/she is here. All that will matter is your beautiful baby!! The important thing is that you love your child and want the best for it! And it’s “daddys” loss if he isnt around for it. Just my opinion, but he/she would be better without a father than to have a meth addicted one!! That stuff is the devil, I know from experience, and he wont care about ANYTHING until he kicks the shit!! So for the sake and safety of your child Id stay FAR away from him!! I know it’s easier said than done and like I said, just an opinion. Im not in your position, but I am a mother and know that I would do ANYTHING to protect my child!!! Im sure you feel the same!! Dont stop writing b/c of him! I know that you are probably helping lots of young single mothers out there with your strength!!

]]> By: Tam King http://newsinglemama.com/34/so-it-continues/comment-page-1/#comment-37 Tam King Sat, 24 Jan 2009 23:47:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=34#comment-37 I have to tell you there is actually no excuse for how your family are talking to you. If they really want your baby to be healthy they should be uplifting you, asking if you need anything, offering to help in any way they can, basically just encouraging you. Nobody can ever excuse such blattant rudeness by saying they are doing if for the baby. Nothing about upsetting the mother of an unborn baby can be good!! How infuriating for you!!<br/><br/>I would be sad to see you close this blog, is there a way in your security settings you can change it to invited viewers only? And can you delete it from "myblog"? I have to tell you there is actually no excuse for how your family are talking to you. If they really want your baby to be healthy they should be uplifting you, asking if you need anything, offering to help in any way they can, basically just encouraging you. Nobody can ever excuse such blattant rudeness by saying they are doing if for the baby. Nothing about upsetting the mother of an unborn baby can be good!! How infuriating for you!!

I would be sad to see you close this blog, is there a way in your security settings you can change it to invited viewers only? And can you delete it from “myblog”?

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