Comments on: Romanticizing the Useless http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:17:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Samantha http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-683 Samantha Sun, 13 Dec 2009 03:03:46 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=485#comment-683 Thanks so much for the in site. Hopefully one day I will stop talking to him or maybe he'll actually change and be the father I've dreamed of for my child (the latter is quite doubtful!!) Thanks again for listening. I'll keep in touch and let you know how things work out. Thanks again! Thanks so much for the in site. Hopefully one day I will stop talking to him or maybe he’ll actually change and be the father I’ve dreamed of for my child (the latter is quite doubtful!!) Thanks again for listening. I’ll keep in touch and let you know how things work out. Thanks again!

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-682 Bridgette Sat, 12 Dec 2009 07:47:58 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=485#comment-682 Hi Samantha. You're not invading my space by reading my blog. This is why I made this blog and why it's private for everyone to read :) Well .. if you read all the way back to the beginning of my blog I started it when I first found out I was pregnant and I pretty much had a mental breakdown everyday up until the last couple of months of my pregnancy. Things were easier, but I wasn't over it. I have to say the most important thing is giving yourself time .. time to feel, time to adjust. Also give yourself time away from your childs father. No contact at all would be best. My son's dad and I didn't talk at all after the 3rd month of my pregnancy and I think that was the best thing for me because I didn't have to keep going through the ringer with him and getting new heartaches. I hope that helps you. Let me know how youre doing ok? Hi Samantha. You’re not invading my space by reading my blog. This is why I made this blog and why it’s private for everyone to read :)

Well .. if you read all the way back to the beginning of my blog I started it when I first found out I was pregnant and I pretty much had a mental breakdown everyday up until the last couple of months of my pregnancy. Things were easier, but I wasn’t over it.

I have to say the most important thing is giving yourself time .. time to feel, time to adjust. Also give yourself time away from your childs father. No contact at all would be best. My son’s dad and I didn’t talk at all after the 3rd month of my pregnancy and I think that was the best thing for me because I didn’t have to keep going through the ringer with him and getting new heartaches.

I hope that helps you. Let me know how youre doing ok?

]]> By: Samantha http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-681 Samantha Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:43:05 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=485#comment-681 Hi i'm sorry i know you don't know me and i'm not trying to invade your personal space by reading your blog but i am twenty, pregnant and the father of my child has suddenly turned out to be a complete waste of life and it just really seems like you're someone i could relate to. i just am curious how you got through just the pregnancy in itself on your own without having a mental break down; like i feel like i'm about to have every day since the father of my child has left? Hi i’m sorry i know you don’t know me and i’m not trying to invade your personal space by reading your blog but i am twenty, pregnant and the father of my child has suddenly turned out to be a complete waste of life and it just really seems like you’re someone i could relate to. i just am curious how you got through just the pregnancy in itself on your own without having a mental break down; like i feel like i’m about to have every day since the father of my child has left?

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-577 Bridgette Fri, 25 Sep 2009 20:03:43 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=485#comment-577 I think so too. My mind is all over the place. I feel different every day. I'm sure a little of it is mental but majority of it is def hormones. I think so too. My mind is all over the place. I feel different every day. I’m sure a little of it is mental but majority of it is def hormones.

]]> By: hef http://newsinglemama.com/485/romanticizing-the-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-568 hef Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:52:04 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/?p=485#comment-568 It's the hormones. Oh, and that whole MAJOR life change thing. It'll get easier. It’s the hormones. Oh, and that whole MAJOR life change thing. It’ll get easier.

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