“Rape”
Posted on | November 9, 2009 | 10 Comments
I’ve been meaning to do better at updating. Really. I have. I’m not dead and I love keeping this blog up. I guess really my life as a single mom .. and well my life period has been uninteresting. Life consists of nothing more than work, sleep, baby.
I’m so proud of Jack. He can can sit up all his own now, but he can’t actually sit up for too long. He’s rolling, he’s trying to crawl although it frustrates him. He’d much rather attempt to walk.
I’m worried about him. We definitely need a bigger apartment so I can get him a crib. I think he’s rolled out of the bed a total of 4 or 5 times with me. My mom called me up all nervous to say he rolled out with her. I mean no one lets him do it on purpose but he’s just so busy and impossible to sleep with anymore. If he hits the wall he will turn himself around and keep rolling until he goes off the foot of the bed. Uggh .. I don’t want him to get hurt! I’m not sure what to do with no space.
Anyway child support has been moving along fantastically. I assume they’ve sent out the notices. Daddy has been sending me emails saying in one sentence he has no money to pay for CS so its not fair I filed, and in the next claiming I raped him to set him up because he doesn’t remember me or ever sleeping with me. He says he vaguely remembers falling asleep while being in my presence and that I’ll never get away with this. Mmm sure baby. Guess that’s why you were all in my face saying you missed fucking me a couple months ago, huh?
Gotta love him.
ETA: I’ve been doing a worse job at keeping up this blog than I thought! Damn damn damn. I forgot to mention before that about 3-4 weeks ago Child Support had been stalling with my case and when I would call them to get answers Customer Service would claim that the hold up was that they couldn’t find Daddy even though I gave them his exact address that he had given me and no explanation as to why that was.
I got frustrated with that after hearing it for 2 months and ontop of that they were acting like I was a pain in the ass for calling them. I decided that I would write a letter to the governor to get something done and before I sent it off I like Child Support know I was going to. That same day a man called me from the Child Support office apologizing profusely and told me that he went over my case file and the hold up was that for some bullshit nonexistent reason they wrote me down as non-cooperative and put my case on hold. Finding Daddy wasn’t an issue, they found him months before. He told me he would take off my “non-coop” title and put my case as top priority to get things moving along and he would send out the letter to Daddy to let him know he was being sued for Child Support and the steps to move forward.
Glad to see he kept good on his word. Daddy got the letter and seems to be flipping his lid. I think it’s funny he actually thought I wouldn’t do this. That he could get off scotch free and not be held accountable for anything AGAIN. Nope, baby. You’re a 27 year old (sorry excuse for a) man. Time to finally step up and be responsible for something you’ve done.
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November 9th, 2009 @ 2:12 am
LMAO! what a dumbass… he really thinks thats going to get him out of the situation!? I tell ya!! some guys…. MOST guys make up the most stupidest ridiculous things ever! But im glad to hear everything else is going well. Your baby boy is so CUTE and it sounds like you’re doing a great job girl!
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November 9th, 2009 @ 3:09 am
Oh wow, he doesn’t remember you, or sleeping with you, but he vaugely recalls falling asleep around you – which means he remembers you after all. He’s going to have a damn hard time proving that you “raped” him in court. Just like when they force him to take a DNA test to prove or disprove paternity. I’m sure he’ll find a way to blame you for ‘rigging’ the test, regardless of what you say or do, this man is too caught up in his own delusions to ever be worthy of you or your son. Get your money and run like hell!
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November 9th, 2009 @ 3:43 am
Amanda – Thank you! I know he’s crazy!
Tam – Exactly! He can’t keep his story straight. He remembers me and he knows he does. I know he also remembers crawling all over me for sex more than a few times. I honestly don’t know what he thinks he’s going to accomplish by crying rape. It makes him look like a fool and his story will never hold up. Especially since I document EVERYTHING. He may as well just admit that he had sex with me willingly and knocked me up. It’ll be alot less painful for him in the end.
But, eh if he wants to dig a hole for himself I won’t stop him …
As my friend said “Oh goody! Bullshit ramblings from an irritated junkie because he’s being held accountable for the first time ever!”
Yup. Pretty much!
November 9th, 2009 @ 2:46 pm
Well done on dealing with Child Support and holding your Ex accountable. It’s easy to let those things slide when you’re so exhausted. I think it’s amazing that you’ve still got your sense of humour – that will get you through!!
November 12th, 2009 @ 5:44 pm
Well my BD thinks that he doesnt have to pay also..& the guy working on my case is a complete asshole and is on Daddy’s side 100%, which i think is bull! Maybe i should threaten to do what u did..except i dnt knw if it’ll work since he’s paying a little here & there just to say he’s paying “something”! Ugh…o well, it’ll all come back on him, eventually! Karma’s a B&#*H
November 15th, 2009 @ 12:23 pm
It’s amazing what men think passes as truth sometimes.
November 17th, 2009 @ 12:49 pm
Cameron’s – Def speak with your DA and tell them about the troubles you’re having and maybe see if they can switch you a case worker!
Satsuki – I don’t think he even believes this as truth! LOL
November 28th, 2009 @ 10:14 am
Jus wanna say congrats on ur beautiful baby he is truly a blessin…n I’m pretty much goin through sumthin similar n hearin ur blogs itz krazy cuz itz evrythin I’m thinkin jus into writin…guys r such idiot’s.. wat I don’t seem 2 undastand is dat dey act like dey want da baby in da beginnin n really dey don’t…wats da point of liein itz not like all females think about is havin a baby…but jus like u I’m tryna b strong n a lot of da time I’m in da break of tears…itz krazy cuz our anniversary is cummin up n we jus missed our last tradition…all I cud say is b strong 4 ur baby cuz I’m sure enough tryin 2…ur a great mom
November 29th, 2009 @ 5:20 am
Thanks Happy .. I don’t understand it either. I guess maybe part of them wants the baby, but then the bigger part of them doesn’t want to grow up so they just dump the situation all together. It’s so sad, frustrating and unfortunate because we as women don’t have that option!
Thank you for saying I’m a good mom
You be strong as well!
November 29th, 2009 @ 9:15 am
Ur exactly rite…watz so funny is his mom told me da samething at da end wen dey get tired of playin daddy itz u on ur own…itz funny how no matter wat generation guys remain da same…