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	<description>I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope.</description>
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		<title>By: Ella Sanvictores</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ella Sanvictores</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 17:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of prayers...also holding on to God&#039;s promises for single moms like this:

“Do not be afraid; you will not be put to shame.  Do not fear disgrace; you will not be humiliated. You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood.  For your Maker is your husband the LORD Almighty is his name…” Isaiah 54:4-5(NIV)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of prayers&#8230;also holding on to God&#8217;s promises for single moms like this:</p>
<p>“Do not be afraid; you will not be put to shame.  Do not fear disgrace; you will not be humiliated. You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood.  For your Maker is your husband the LORD Almighty is his name…” Isaiah 54:4-5(NIV)</p>
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		<title>By: baby</title>
		<link>http://newsinglemama.com/618/sick-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-842</link>
		<dc:creator>baby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:38:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We love to hear more tips like this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We love to hear more tips like this!</p>
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		<title>By: Bridgette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bridgette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 01:28:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing that WVM, and you are so right. I&#039;ve had to admit that I need help with many things regarding parenthood. I too am independent, but inda by force. I&#039;ve heard my mom snottily say too many times when I asked her for help &quot;He&#039;s your kid, you deal with it&quot; So I assume everyone feels that way. I&#039;ve grown to not like asking.

But there are times when it seems everyone is willing to jump in and I really appreciate that it&#039;s great :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing that WVM, and you are so right. I&#8217;ve had to admit that I need help with many things regarding parenthood. I too am independent, but inda by force. I&#8217;ve heard my mom snottily say too many times when I asked her for help &#8220;He&#8217;s your kid, you deal with it&#8221; So I assume everyone feels that way. I&#8217;ve grown to not like asking.</p>
<p>But there are times when it seems everyone is willing to jump in and I really appreciate that it&#8217;s great <img src='http://newsinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: The Well-Versed Mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Well-Versed Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:41:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hear ya, sister. 
I&#039;m sick right now and thank goodness my kids are tweens and can mostly fend for themselves. 

I have learned over the past 5 years as a single mom, though, that sometimes you just have to ask for help. I&#039;ve always had a hard time doing that, being fiercely (and sometimes stupidly) independent. But whenever I do bring myself to reach out, I&#039;m always amazed at the response. People want to help. They&#039;re there for you, more often than not. 

Fellow moms, neighbors, co-workers - all have helped me in times of need. I looked at them as a last resort, but maybe I shouldn&#039;t have.

It goes without saying that I&#039;m always willing to help them in return. 

--The Well-Versed Mom
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear ya, sister.<br />
I&#8217;m sick right now and thank goodness my kids are tweens and can mostly fend for themselves. </p>
<p>I have learned over the past 5 years as a single mom, though, that sometimes you just have to ask for help. I&#8217;ve always had a hard time doing that, being fiercely (and sometimes stupidly) independent. But whenever I do bring myself to reach out, I&#8217;m always amazed at the response. People want to help. They&#8217;re there for you, more often than not. </p>
<p>Fellow moms, neighbors, co-workers &#8211; all have helped me in times of need. I looked at them as a last resort, but maybe I shouldn&#8217;t have.</p>
<p>It goes without saying that I&#8217;m always willing to help them in return. </p>
<p>&#8211;The Well-Versed Mom<br />
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		<title>By: Bridgette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bridgette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 18:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the tips :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the tips <img src='http://newsinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Teresa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 09:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really just try and relax and do what I have to do, luckily my daughter is now 16 so she is helpful, I hope you feel better soon!!!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really just try and relax and do what I have to do, luckily my daughter is now 16 so she is helpful, I hope you feel better soon!!!<br />
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		<title>By: Satsuki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Satsuki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ugh, your=you&#039;re

Ignore my mistakes please.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ugh, your=you&#8217;re</p>
<p>Ignore my mistakes please.<br />
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		<title>By: Satsuki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Satsuki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish I had a great answer but I don&#039;t.

We just do the best we can and hope for the best. I always keep in mind that even if I do lose my temper while sick and stressed it&#039;s only a few days out of a lifetime. I don&#039;t beat myself up about it, knowing I&#039;m normally a great mother. All you can do is your best. When your sick your best isn&#039;t what it normally is. This is just the way things work. I don&#039;t think our kids will grow up and look back on those moments saying &quot;Wow, mom was so awful to me when she had a fever.&quot; Provided you&#039;re not going on a rampage I think it will all work out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I had a great answer but I don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>We just do the best we can and hope for the best. I always keep in mind that even if I do lose my temper while sick and stressed it&#8217;s only a few days out of a lifetime. I don&#8217;t beat myself up about it, knowing I&#8217;m normally a great mother. All you can do is your best. When your sick your best isn&#8217;t what it normally is. This is just the way things work. I don&#8217;t think our kids will grow up and look back on those moments saying &#8220;Wow, mom was so awful to me when she had a fever.&#8221; Provided you&#8217;re not going on a rampage I think it will all work out.</p>
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