Comments on: Cussed Daddy Out http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/ I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope. Sun, 20 May 2012 10:08:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Too Much Information | NewSingleMama - Young Single Pregnant Mother http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-234 Too Much Information | NewSingleMama - Young Single Pregnant Mother Sat, 21 Mar 2009 12:34:51 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/#comment-234 [...] “No. He’s no longer in our lives” I went into the quick, simplified version of what happened the last time we talked and why we don’t talk anymore. Now I only share this much info with family, but I’m beginning to regret it as I take into [...] [...] “No. He’s no longer in our lives” I went into the quick, simplified version of what happened the last time we talked and why we don’t talk anymore. Now I only share this much info with family, but I’m beginning to regret it as I take into [...]

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-132 Bridgette Fri, 13 Feb 2009 16:17:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/#comment-132 Thank you so much Nicole :) Really!<br/><br/>I wish I could have said more to him, followed by smacking him around a little bit for sense LOL.<br/><br/>But he just went on to show me once again much how much of a boy he is. Thank you so much Nicole :) Really!

I wish I could have said more to him, followed by smacking him around a little bit for sense LOL.

But he just went on to show me once again much how much of a boy he is.

]]> By: Nicole http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-131 Nicole Fri, 13 Feb 2009 06:01:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/#comment-131 You needed that.<br/>You needed to get that all out. It's better for you and better for your baby if you aren't holding in all of those terrible feelings.<br/><br/>You probably feel like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders :)<br/><br/>I've completely done the exact same thing, although I waited until I was good and drunk after the baby was here and I didn't stop where you were forced to. I got it alllll out. lol<br/>ALL of it.<br/>Many times.<br/>I can hardly believe he even put up with it without hanging up on me or telling me off. It was probably the guilt inside of him...<br/><br/>But be careful sweetie. Don't let him threaten you like that. You never know when theoretical threats are going to become real and physical threats.<br/><br/>I got lucky with my son's father. Even though sometimes it doesn't feel like it.<br/>I couldn't have asked for a better one-night-stand-resulting-in-the-love-of-my-life situation.<br/><br/>You're a ver strong girl and you're going to make an amazing mother.<br/><br/>You've got your life straight, you can't force Daddy to do the same. It's his choice to act the way he is and acting that way around your child is going to be toxic in his life...<br/>You can't force someone to be a good person.<br/>IMHO: He's a pathetic excuse for a man, he's giving unmarried fathers a bad name and he's perpetuating a terrible deadbeat dad stereotype.<br/>Did I mention he's pathetic.<br/><br/>Maybe it's me being a woman -- being the one that gets to be pregnant and connect with your child on a completely different and unreal level but, how can you not immediately love that little being inside of you??<br/>(Okay not IMMEDIATELY but you know...)<br/><br/>I'm rooting for you here girl :)<br/>So is every other mother out there -- single or not.<br/><br/>(I got your email! I'm going to go through my boxes of baby stuff and check and then get back to you!) You needed that.
You needed to get that all out. It’s better for you and better for your baby if you aren’t holding in all of those terrible feelings.

You probably feel like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders :)

I’ve completely done the exact same thing, although I waited until I was good and drunk after the baby was here and I didn’t stop where you were forced to. I got it alllll out. lol
ALL of it.
Many times.
I can hardly believe he even put up with it without hanging up on me or telling me off. It was probably the guilt inside of him…

But be careful sweetie. Don’t let him threaten you like that. You never know when theoretical threats are going to become real and physical threats.

I got lucky with my son’s father. Even though sometimes it doesn’t feel like it.
I couldn’t have asked for a better one-night-stand-resulting-in-the-love-of-my-life situation.

You’re a ver strong girl and you’re going to make an amazing mother.

You’ve got your life straight, you can’t force Daddy to do the same. It’s his choice to act the way he is and acting that way around your child is going to be toxic in his life…
You can’t force someone to be a good person.
IMHO: He’s a pathetic excuse for a man, he’s giving unmarried fathers a bad name and he’s perpetuating a terrible deadbeat dad stereotype.
Did I mention he’s pathetic.

Maybe it’s me being a woman — being the one that gets to be pregnant and connect with your child on a completely different and unreal level but, how can you not immediately love that little being inside of you??
(Okay not IMMEDIATELY but you know…)

I’m rooting for you here girl :)
So is every other mother out there — single or not.

(I got your email! I’m going to go through my boxes of baby stuff and check and then get back to you!)

]]> By: Bridgette http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-130 Bridgette Thu, 12 Feb 2009 21:50:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/#comment-130 Haha, oh believe me there's much more I wanted to say. Like the little wimp that he is he ran off and blocked me before I was done with him. But it was nice to finally let him know that the Bridgette who put up with his abuse, who bit her tongue, who kept her cool around him no matter what for the sake of whatever is gone. Shes now a mother, scorned yet strong and roaring on the defense of her child.<br/><br/>His bs will be tolerated no more!<br/><br/>I hope you get to experience such liberation as well :D Haha, oh believe me there’s much more I wanted to say. Like the little wimp that he is he ran off and blocked me before I was done with him. But it was nice to finally let him know that the Bridgette who put up with his abuse, who bit her tongue, who kept her cool around him no matter what for the sake of whatever is gone. Shes now a mother, scorned yet strong and roaring on the defense of her child.

His bs will be tolerated no more!

I hope you get to experience such liberation as well :D

]]> By: Satsuki Rebel http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-129 Satsuki Rebel Thu, 12 Feb 2009 17:25:00 +0000 http://newsinglemama.com/85/cussed-daddy-out/#comment-129 It's been two years and I've still never told my ex what a dumbass he is. Congrats on getting it off your chest sooner rather than later. I'm just bidding my time, holding my tongue, waiting for the day he steps out of line. I've got a running list and someday he'll hear every item on it. It’s been two years and I’ve still never told my ex what a dumbass he is. Congrats on getting it off your chest sooner rather than later. I’m just bidding my time, holding my tongue, waiting for the day he steps out of line. I’ve got a running list and someday he’ll hear every item on it.

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