How to Heal with Dignity (Break Up Rules)
(I wish this was available to me when I was going through shit with Thumper and Daddy too. I hope this will help someone else because it will help me in the future!) The best way to heal with dignity (for both people after a breakup) is with NO CONTACT. Raise your hand and repeat [...]
Sex
I’ve made the vow to myself to give up Fuck Buddy relationships and to take sex and who I do it with more seriously. I’ve only had one true FB, but I’ve had enough relationships that involved sex and didn’t end up being serious to feel like I’ve been merely a cock socket more than [...]
The Appeal of Dating Single Mothers
When I first learned I was to become a single mother I was very worried about how others might view me, especially potential partners when it came time for me to date. Dating a single parent always seemed less than ideal. I would hear words like “baggage”, “damaged goods” thrown around along with the unappealing [...]
Walking Away and Letting Go
By T. D. Jakes There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see [...]
Push, Bridgette! Push!
Fuck it. Fuck him. I really can’t do it anymore. I’ve spent 5 months with him on my mind. 5 months worrying about him more than I have any other guy before. 5 months stressing, dreaming, giving him so much of my energy .. and he’s not even thinking of me. He doesn’t love me [...]
I’m Trying to be Nonchalant About It
So I talked to him. I don’t even want to say his name. He apologized for disappearing out of my life for the past 2 months and went on to attempt a deep conversation with me. “I want to change my life”, he said. “I realize that I’ve done a lot to fuck things up, [...]
Enlightenment
I have been avoiding people lately. Namely my friend, S, that guy I wrote about the other day, Thumper and a handful of other people. I feel like it’s mandatory not only for myself and my sanity, but for my little boy as well. I guess I feel like with time there comes a place [...]
I Give Up
Ironically after I made my last post Thumper got in contact with me through AIM and we chat a couple of times. We talked things through and seemed to reach a good level of understanding which was great. He told me he missed me and couldn’t wait to see me again and I felt the [...]
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