Raw and Honest Blog of a New Single Mom

I am a single mother of a biracial baby boy just trying to make it on my own. This journey is hard, yet rewarding. Blogging is my therapy, these words are my heart, and people doing better and being inspired by what I have written is my passion and hope.

ValenDOOM’s Day

Valendoom’s Day was fine .. I survived. I didn’t see too many happy couples rubbing it in my face that they were paired up and living in loving bliss all while I was a single, swollen and pregnant, recently dumped, and furious at my sperm donor mom .. LOL (jk .. kinda. It’s not that [...]

Feeling Meh, New Look for Blog

I feel so sick, meh. I spent all of yesterday pretty much crying my eyes out, having a mental break down, dabbing into depression, being mad at Thumper, being mad at men, being mad at love, being mad at my life in general, feeling insecure, feeling inadequate. This morning all that was still there too. [...]

More Heartache for Mommy

So Thumper broke up with me this morning. Everything was going fantastic for us, or so I thought. However, I could sense in the past couple of days that something was wrong as he suddenly pulled away from me, so today I decided to finally ask him to talk to me about it. Long story [...]

Is Love with a Baggage Queen Worth It?

I should probably keep this to myself, but I’m so so happy and so so inlove. I can’t even sleep because I’m on such a cloud right now. Yeah I just got off the phone with my guy I was thinking about a post that I made on the Single Family Voices forum where a [...]

Dating a New Guy

Happy New Years to all! I hope everyone had a great one and was very safe! Mine was amazing. As I mentioned before I would be having a guest over, a new male I was thinking of maybe seeing .. I’ll refer to him as Thumper. He came to live with me for 1 week [...]

Better Feeling :)

I wanna thank everyone for the support and words of wisdom. Those who comment, email or talk to me in other forms I really appreciate it. When I wasn’t posting I took a giant time out. I needed a break from thinking about babies and motherhood and I needed a break from obsessing over Daddy. [...]