There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life,

then you need to……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ……

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth…..

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you! u have a bad attitude…….

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better……

LET IT GO!!!

If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him……..

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship…….

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves……

LET IT GO!!!

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed ……….

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying ‘take your hands off of it,’ then you need to……

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then .

LET IT GO!!!

I feel like it’s mandatory not only for myself and my sanity, but for my little boy as well. I guess I feel like with time there comes a place in parenthood where you become choosier about who your friends are and the group you roll with. My group of so-called friends desperately needed tweaking. I can’t live with the constant drama. I can no longer hang with the people who were cool as hell when I was a teenager, but have yet to mature past the age of 16 as 20-somethings. The people who are in no way shape or form uplifting to me. Those make it a struggle to preserve my inner peace and happiness. I figure what is the point anymore? Yes, things may be a little lonelier now, but I am better off. And you know what? So far it’s working.

I also feel like I can no longer do this on my own spiritually. It’s taken me awhile, but I realize I’m not Superwoman. I’m not able to completely control of my life and destiny. I’m not able to single-handedly juggle all that life throws at me. Maybe I need that Higher Power for guidance so I can find my way out of the darkness. I need Him for strength as I continue on trying to become the woman I need to be for not only myself, but for my son. To raise him up into an upstanding young man and provide him with a full life. I’m ready for things to be on the right track again and I feel they never fully will be without Him.

And no this will not turn into a preachy blog. Let’s just call it gradual spiritual enlightenment.

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I had an emotional breakdown last night. I temporarily went insane. The pain became too much. I couldn’t move, I couldn’t get comfortable and on top of everything my son decided to start kicking me as hard as he could. It was driving me wild. I called my mom and let loose. She was awesome and drove over to just sit next to me until I fell asleep in bed. I think I’m going to buy some flowers and give them to her tomorrow for my birthday. Just to show her I appreciate her, firstly for all she went to bring me into the world and now all she does since I have been in the world. I completely understand being a mother now and I know it ain’t easy. It should be her day as much as mine.